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Whose Wedding
Is It?

Plan your wedding without losing your relationship, your money, or yourself along the way. The book by Magali Dunkwu · Out September 2026
Whose Wedding Is It? by Magali Dunkwu — book cover
15 yearsPlanning real weddings
3 continentsMorocco · Europe · West Africa
BBC · CNNOn-air wedding expert
1 questionThat changes everything
Sound familiar?

The wedding stress nobody warned you about isn't the flowers.

"His mum has invited four people we've never met."

"Dad's paying — so apparently Dad's deciding."

"I'm the one awake at 4am with the spreadsheet. Again."

If any of those made your jaw tighten, you're in the right place. The Godmother has seen it all — and she'll tell you the truth.

Four ways in

However you're planning, start here.

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The Book

Every family dynamic, every awkward opinion, every boundary you'll need — with worksheets built in.

Out September 2026 First chapter free →
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The Toolkit

Fillable worksheets that actually get used — Vision, Budget Builder, Family Conversations. Built for your phone.

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Six weeks, live, with couples doing exactly what you're doing — and a Godmother who tells you the truth.

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Tales from the Aisle

Sixty-second dramatised wedding dilemmas — every one ending on the only question that matters.

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Tales from the Aisle

Composite stories, real verdicts. New episode every fortnight — tag the person who needs to see it.

Episode 01

The Cheque

"A contribution is a gift. A budget line is a vote." Struggling with this one? → The Budget Builder
Episode 02

The Plus One War

"The guest list has two owners. Everyone else is a lobbyist." Struggling with this one? → Family Conversations
Episode 03

The Spreadsheet at 4am

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"The weddings that go wrong aren't about flowers. They're about whose day everyone thinks it is."
Magali Dunkwu · As heard on BBC & CNN The Wedding Godmother

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